T.P.C.E.O.S.

My Guests
Walking on my own healing path does not mean I completely isolated myself from the surrounding world. On the contrary, I became the version of myself today, thanks to those incredible people whom I met along this journey. They are ordinary people but do extraordinary things! Honestly, I do not know how to thank them enough, because I could not achieve my goals without their support.
Truth revealed: I was so shocked and surprised that all of my guests immediately agreed to participate in my blog interview, even though they have never seen my blog before. I am so grateful for the trust and hope that they had for me. Again, I would like to express my deep appreciation to all of you, who were willing to contribute your time and efforts to my project.
I decided to create the "My Guests" section so that I could learn from their wisdom, and experiences, as well as share authentic, and inspirational stories with audiences. More importantly, I wanted to save the beautiful memories of these impressive people. One day, I will look back and smile because it reminds me of a wonderful youth and the great time I shared with those magnificent people throughout my early 20s.
My family- Gia đình tôi
Dong Nai, Vietnam
This is my family. From left to right are my father, my mom, my grandma, and my little brother. It has been almost 5 years since the last time I saw them. I missssss my family so muchhhhh!
In my perspective, family is the 'first school' that all of us need to attend. During these years of growing up, I believe that we have learned a ton of different lessons from it.
My parents raised me to become a hardworking, kind, faithful, well-educated, and well-mannered person. They also taught me about what empathy, unconditional love, sacrifice, dedication, and commitment were like.
None of the families in this world is completely perfect! Of course, we argued and found each other annoying sometimes. At the end of the day, we chose to stay connected, and support each other; no one should feel unsafe, unprotected, or unsecured. My parents are not superheroes, but in my eyes, they definitely are true heroes, because they sacrificed a lot for their children no matter how challenging it was. I am so grateful for belonging to my family! They are not only home where I can come back anytime, but also inspiration and motivation to move forward. Therefore, I never allow myself to give up because I do not live only for myself, there is a whole family at home who is waiting, praying, as well as wishing me to be healthy and successful! I am not good at verbally expressing my deep gratitude and love for other people; hence, I will prove it through actions and fruitful outcomes. Love you, my beloved family!
Xin giới thiệu với mọi người, đây là gia đình tôi. Bức hình này, từ trái sang, là ba, mẹ, bà ngoại, và em trai của tôi. Nếu tính thêm cả họ hàng, cháu chắt chút chít vô nữa thì sợ khung hình này không chứa hết.
Trong mắt tôi, gia đình là trường học đầu tiên của đời người và nó đóng vai trò quan trọng nhất trong việc xây dựng nền tảng và hình thành bản chất cho chúng ta. Trước hết, gia đình dạy tôi về tình thân, một tình yêu thương thuần khiết, vô điều kiện. Kế đến, tôi được dạy dỗ để trở thành một người tử tế và lương thiện- "đói cho sạch, rách cho thơm", giúp được ai giúp hết mình, không mưu cầu hay tham lam của cải vật chất của người khác. Ba mẹ tôi hay nói: "Bàn tay ta làm nên tất cả- Có sức người sỏi đá cũng thành cơm". Vì thế, bằng mọi giá, ba mẹ lo cho hai chị em tôi ăn học tới nơi tới chốn. Bởi lẽ, khi mình vừa có sức khoẻ, kết hợp với cái tài cái tâm thì làm việc gì cũng thành công thuận lợi. Cứ "cần kiệm liêm chính" và có thực lực thì không bao giờ sợ nghèo về nhân cách và tài lộc.
Không gia đình nào là hoàn hảo cả! Đương nhiên, "ca múa nhạc kịch" diễn ra rất thường xuyên. Tuy nhiên, dù có thế nào đi chăng nữa, chúng tôi luôn là một gia đình, luôn yêu thương đùm bọc, chở che, và không bỏ rơi một ai. Tôi cảm thấy vô cùng may mắn và biết ơn khi được làm con của ba mẹ và là một thành viên của gia đình này. "Công cha như núi Thái Sơn- Nghĩa mẹ như nước trong nguồn chảy ra", ơn nghĩa này không biết sao đền đáp cho đủ! Tôi không giỏi về mặt diễn đạt tình cảm và cảm xúc qua lời nói. Thay vì vậy, tôi sẽ chứng minh bằng hành động. Cảm ơn gia đình đã luôn đồng hành, động viên, và hỗ trợ con trong suốt thời gian qua!

Thao Ha
Can Tho, Vietnam
Bạn có thể giới thiệu đôi điều về bản thân mình?
Xin chào, mình tên là Thảo. Mình đang là sinh viên y khoa tại một trường đại học ở Việt Nam.
Làm ơn chia sẻ bí quyết chăm sóc bản thân của bạn trong suốt quá trình đào tạo ở đại học Y Dược.
Dù là ai hay bất cứ lĩnh vực nào có 3 thứ chúng ta cần phát triển mỗi ngày: Kiến thức học thuật, sức khỏe thể chất và tinh thần. Mỗi kì thi trôi qua rất khắc nghiệt. Chương trình y khoa rất nặng. Trong quá trình thi mình đã mệt mỏi rất nhiều. Mình luôn cần người nói chuyện để giải tỏa cảm xúc. Nhưng mình nhận ra mình chỉ đang truyền cảm xúc tiêu cực của mình qua cho người khác thôi. Họ không xứng đáng để nhận những điều đó. Nhưng mỗi khi kỳ thi kết thúc, lúc nghỉ ngơi, mình lại cảm thấy hơi hoang mang và trống rỗng. Mình nhận ra rằng có mục tiêu và cố gắng mới cảm cảm thấy cuộc sống có ý nghĩa. Nên mình ko sợ hãi mỗi khi có bài kiểm tra nào nữa, nó như thăng cấp khi các bạn đánh boss vậy đó. Mỗi khó khăn qua đi, bạn lại trưởng thành thêm một chút. Rồi thời gian trôi qua, bạn sẽ thấy tự hào về mỗi thứ mình trải qua. Nên mỗi khi kì thi tới, mình sẽ giữ bản thân thật bình tĩnh. Cố gắng hết sức mình thôi. Nghĩ như vậy nên mỗi kì thi mình thoải mái hơn hẳn. Mình cũng hay tới nhà thờ và cầu nguyện nữa. Chúa sẽ mang tới cho bạn cảm giác bình an mà bạn không thể kiếm ở đâu được.
Và sức khỏe cũng rất quan trọng nữa. Bạn không thể làm gì với một cơ thể mệt mỏi. Mình từng thức khuya nên dậy rất trễ. Mình nghĩ đó là biểu hiện của sự chăm chỉ . Nhưng mẹ đã bảo: mỗi ngày giống như một gang tay, con thức dậy trễ tức là mất đi nữa gang tay rồi. Mình đã ngủ sớm và dậy sớm từ đó. Mỗi sáng mở mắt đón bình minh cùng một tách trà nóng báo hiệu một ngày tốt đẹp sẽ đến đó
Kiến thức học thuật chuyên ngành này rất nhiều và khó. Mỗi năm kiến thức sẽ được cập nhật lại nên việc theo đuổi nó cũng là một thử thách với mình. Có những lúc mình rất chán đọc nên mình tìm hiểu rất nhiều cách học: anki, mindmap, notion or promoter,... Mình luôn đổi cách học để không thấy nhàm chán. Mỗi lần học mình sẽ mở kênh James Scholz để học cùng hay đến cafe or thư viện để học cùng bạn. Nếu bạn hay mất tập trung trong lúc học hay bấm điện thoại. Hãy quay vlog trong quá trình học, nó thật sự rất hiệu quả.
Học tập và phát triển bản thân thật sự là một quá trình cô đơn. Nhưng mình cảm thấy cô đơn cũng đầy nghệ thuật. Không phải các thiên tài đều cảm thấy cô đơn không ai hiểu mình và các Ngài đã tỏa sáng sao. Cuộc sống rất nhiều màu sắc, không chỉ là 7 màu của cầu vồng thôi, những vệt đen hay tím đều làm mình cảm thấy thật nghệ thuật và sang trong không thể tả được vậy. Không phải những nghệ nhân Nhật Bản đã hàn gắn những chiếc ly vỡ thành những tác phẩm thật xuất sắc bằng vàng sao. Những khó khăn sẽ làm bạn trở nên đẹp đẽ và có giá trị hơn
Bạn có lời khuyên nào dành cho tôi và các bạn độc giả không?
Hãy đọc sách. Cuộc sống mỗi người bằng cách nào đó sẽ có thời kỳ tăm tối nhất. Có thể mức độ nghiêm trọng giữa tôi và bạn khác nhau. Nhưng những cuốn sách đó sẽ giúp bạn có hướng đi mới trong cuộc đời. Và hãy luôn mỉm cười nhé vì một sớm mai thức dậy, đột nhiên bạn sẽ cảm thấy thế giới này tử tế đến lạ. Những đám mây nhuốm hoàng hôn hay những cơn mưa rào vào trưa hè. Mọi thứ thật dịu dàng. Chỉ cần bạn chậm chậm lại một chút thôi. Đừng vội vàng vì quỹ đạo mỗi người là khác nhau. Bạn sẽ tỏa sáng ở một thời điểm khác. Còn giờ hãy chuẩn bị thật sẵn sàng nhé. Đừng để khi cơ hội đến bạn lại thiếu mất điều gì đó. Lúc đấy thật sự đáng tiếc.

Kai Englert
Bavarian, Germany
I am 100% sure that your Math teacher would not be happy if you wrote 1+1=1. However, I have found a genius person who could prove the equation logically. Yes, he is the ONE!
We began this journey as two strangers in Portland, OR, but now, two paths are merging into one. I believe that common interests and a healthy relationship are the key magnets that pull us closer together. We both have a huge unconditional love for green nature."The green forest has been attached to a majority of my childhood memories. Up to now, I still spend my spare time in the deep forest that is close to where I live. It becomes my self-care ritual. I stay there to isolate myself from those annoying noises and stress. My ears can only hear the sound of wind, leaves, and animals. My mind and my skin bathe deeply in the sunshine and fresh air. They sharpen all my senses and put my soul at ease"- Kai shared that Ecotherapy (nature therapy) is his top priority while practicing self-care.
I am sure that not only Kai but there are also numerous people around the world receive the benefits from Ecotherapy (Nature therapy). If you never try spending time in nature, or practicing forest bathing, I highly recommend them. Let the green power soothe your physical and mental pain. Let it heal your soul!
Sascha Steigerwald
Krommenthal Bayern, Germany
It was such a pleasure for me to interview Mr. Steigerwald. He is a master craftsman and foundry mechanic in Germany. In 2018, Mr. Steigerwald decided to establish the Wild Power Zone Fitness Center. He shared, "As an avid athlete and bodybuilder, I want to create a space where I and the community can do exercise and promote a healthy lifestyle together". In his opinion, self-care is an important method for developing wellness, personality, self-discipline, and success. Therefore, he highly encouraged people to be aware of self-care practices in order to strengthen both mental and physical health.

Andreas Merki
Switzerland
Live your life, challenge yourself, and enjoy every moment.
Hi, my name is Andreas. I am 24 years old, and I live in Zürich, Switzerland. I am a Process Manager and work for a big food company in the logistics outbound department.
Besides my job, I do triathlons. This is a mixture of swimming, cycling, and running.
Training the different disciplines is the most difficult part of my hobby; the competition is like a dessert for me. Usually, I practice each discipline twice a week, but I have reduced the intensity because of my studies.
Self-care is an important part of my life. It helps me find a balance between work, studies, and hobbies. I practice self-care with meditation and wellness. Four years ago, I bought a sauna instead of a car because self-care is more important to me than unlimited flexibility. If I want to travel somewhere, I always use public transport because it is cheaper and more relaxing.
When I do some challenging exercises, I do not feel tired. On the contrary, I feel more energetic than before the workout. I think that comes from the happy hormones that the body produces. After exercising, I am motivated to outdo myself in the next activity. I think if you have this attitude, everything is possible.
My tip to others: Live your life and challenge yourself – It is fun and motivates you to do your best every day. It can be helpful to have a motto that inspires you or to have a role model. In my case, it is Daniela Ryf whom I took as my role model. She is a fantastic triathlete and lives with the motto, “Success does not mean winning everything, but making the best out of every situation.” I suggest living by this motto because it has helped me in many difficult situations. Finally, take enough time for self-care. You have only one life and one body. Do not destroy it.

Corinne Blanc
Portland, Oregon USA
Please introduce yourself
My name is Corinne LeBlanc, and I am a licensed acupuncturist and herbalist specializing in pediatrics.
What inspired you to pursue acupuncture?
Before going to acupuncture school, I was working 1:1 with families, providing play-based therapy to neurodiverse children. Some of the kiddos that I worked with received acupuncture as another healing modality. I was fortunate enough to be invited by a family to observe an acupuncture session, and I was blown away! I loved seeing the way that the child's nervous system was downregulated and the rapport that had been established between the child and the provider. We had an incredibly connected play session after, with lots of eye contact, and it really inspired me to research acupuncture more and, eventually, go to school to become an acupuncturist myself.
Could you please share how acupuncture works in treating different conditions?
The mechanisms of acupuncture are many, and we are still learning about the exact way that it works in the body! One of the effects is vasodilation, which helps to increase blood flow in the body. This increase in oxygen-rich blood can be really incredible for reducing pain. Another profound effect is on the nervous system by increasing parasympathetic activity, our rest, and the digestion center. This is often why people report feeling super relaxed after an acupuncture treatment!
I am aware that you specialize in pediatrics, do you mind sharing your experience in ped acupuncture?
I have done a lot of post-graduate studies to gain as much knowledge and experience as possible. I have a Pediatric Acupuncture certification from Jingshen Pediatrics as well as hundreds of continuing education hours. I most recently have started to co-teach with my mentor, sharing the gentle practice of Shonishin with other acupuncturists interested in treating children.
Working with kiddos has been such a gift! This medicine provides gentle, yet effective care for a whole host of challenges, from GI concerns to ADHD. With my background working with neurodiverse populations, I see a lot of children in my practice diagnosed with ADHD, ASD, and anxiety. I often work closely with other care providers, and I value my role as a healing team member, helping to empower children and families to tune in and really pay attention to their bodies - they are such good teachers if we are willing to listen! A lot of what I do is a Japanese style of treatment, called Shonishin, which uses small tools on the body to encourage parasympathetic nervous system activation, improve immunity and increase blood flow. Every treatment is infused with some play, and one of my highest priorities is to create a safe environment, where children lead the treatment and are empowered to say no if something does not feel good.
Do you have any advice for me and my readers about self-care practice or any aspects of life?
Self-care is not selfish! The better you feel, the more you are able to shine your beautiful light in the world, so always make space for body work, eating well, spending time outdoors, and engaging with your community.

Eren Schnell
Minnesota, USA
Please introduce yourself
My name is Eren Schnell and I’m a Developmental Psychology major at the University of Minnesota!
I really enjoyed hanging out with you (and your mom) and adored your Leo fiery energy. Could you please share how you practice self-care during college?
It can be really hard to consistently practice self-care in college, but I try to by going rock climbing with friends, playing D&D, and just getting some alone time to decompress. Being alone is the best way for me to practice self-care.
In speaking of being independent and pursuing whatever you wish to do, I would love to hear your thoughts on women's empowerment (basically self-worth, self-care, self-love, self-esteem, etc.). This term sounds too macro, please do not stress yourself about it; keep it simple. Anything you think will be fascinating for you.
Women’s empowerment to me means a great deal. It’s hard for me to put it in words, but being a role model for young women is something that drives me. There have been times when the patriarchy has really beaten me down and I accepted it, but I’ve moved past that and have become stronger. We should never accept bad treatment just because it’s what’s familiar!! Being a confident woman is something that the patriarchy hates, so even though I have my insecurities, I am going to love myself anyway :)
As I remembered you are in the psychology field, what inspired you to choose that major?
I chose to become a psychology major because when I was younger I went to therapy during a rough patch in my life. I believe that going to therapy/with my therapist really helped me during a difficult period in my life and guided me toward becoming a more well-adjusted adult. I want to do that for other young adolescents.
What do you think about the importance of self-care in promoting mental health?
I think self-care is very important in regard to the mental health field. Sometimes we neglect our own needs in favor of friends, family, work, or many other things that we deem as “more important” than ourselves. I think self-care is an act of self-love and we need to be conscious of how we treat ourselves in order to have the best mental health possible.
Any advice for me and my readers?
My advice for you and anyone reading is to not allow yourself to think negatively about yourself. I believe that negative self-thought really impacts how you treat yourself even if it’s just thoughts. How we speak to ourselves matters a great deal. Everyone is worthy of love and loving yourself is super important!

Leah Geslois
Portland Oregon
Please introduce yourself
Hi Tien! My name is Leah Geslois. I own and operate Kinetic Remedies LLC, a Bodywork and Yoga Company. Additionally, I practice Reiki with sound healing and crystals, teach various styles of Yoga & Meditation, as well as offer Bodywork, Business, and Embodiment Mentorships.
Do you mind sharing your healing journey?
My healing journey began before I even realized it was happening. I began collecting crystals when I was 18 and would arrange them in a pattern on the floor - hovering my hands over them and picking up on the sensations emitted. I remembered feeling at ease, and experiencing greater peace in these moments. In retrospect, these moments were less about becoming more Spiritual and everything about being absolutely present as the moments are happening. During my late 20’s early 30’s I noticed that foods, lifestyle choices, and environments impacted my well-being. I also realized some of my subconscious patterns, thought processes, and actions were preventing me from making choices that were aligned with my values. So, day by day, I have been actively checking in with myself to see what my core values are, doing my best to stay true to them and showing up in reality in this way. A lot of my healing journey has been through movement practice starting with Yoga and then later incorporating Aerial & Dance.
How do you practice self-care?
Self-care looks different every day. Sometimes it’s sleeping for an extra few hours while other days it’s waking up before the sun to meditate. I believe self-care is listening to the messages our bodies are trying to share and honoring them. If I were to dedicate a whole day to Self-care it would look like this; wake up at sunrise, meditate, yoga flow, hit the aerial gym, wash up and moisturize, go on a hike or spontaneous adventure, laugh, spend time and cook a meal with someone I love, cuddle my dog, candlelit bath.
How do you integrate bodywork and spirituality into self-care?
Bodywork and Spirituality are self-care :) I often allow my personal yoga practice to be less regimented and more intuitive flowing with what my body needs at that moment through feeling rather than thinking about what I might need. Naturally, when we take time each day to practice self-care, we are leveling up spiritually. Self-care amplifies our auric field, the electromagnetic field around our body. When our auric field is strengthened it magnetizes opportunities for spiritual growth.
Do you want to share any advice with me and my readers?
Deep down each of us knows the answers to our questions and no one can ever tell us which decisions are best for us. However, we sometimes need guidance from other people to lead us back home to ourselves and to gently shine a light on our blind spots that are creating limits. Have the willingness to be guided and take accountability for your growth processes.

Dr. Daniels
Illinois, USA
My name is Jim "JD" Daniels and I live in rural western Illinois on a farm near the banks of the Mississippi river with Kate my wife. We have four children(all out of the house ) aged 19-38 and 4 grand dogs. I am semi-retired from my job (30 years ) at Southern Illinois University School of Medicine, where I served as assistant dean of students and director of our sports medicine fellowship. I am board certified in three medical specialties: family & community medicine, preventive medicine, and sports medicine. I also earned a master's in public health and certification in point-of-care diagnostic medical ultrasound with special expertise in musculoskeletal ultrasound.
I practice "self-care" in a number of ways that have evolved over the years in the early stages of my professional career. I placed my work ahead of everything. I had no hobbies, worked an average of 70 plus hours/week, and did not take a day off my first five years in practice (prior to working at the school I was in a private primary care practice in rural Missouri and Illinois for 10 years). This had devastating effects on my health, family, and quality of life, despite this I was very proud of my lifestyle and believed that these "sacrifices" were necessary to be a good physician.
Over time I lost compassion for my patients, was unavailable for my family, and was constantly on the edge of physical exhaustion, but by all outside measures, I was considered very "successful". I had what is commonly known as "hero syndrome". This is often a result of family dynamics experienced in youth and was indirectly encouraged by my profession in the past (another common "syndrome " that occurs in the "helping professions" is "imposter syndrome").
In my late 30s, I was unhappy and isolated despite being praised by my community as a success.
Health issues that occurred to some of my family members acted as a catalyst to help me decide to make a significant shift in my career. When I started working for the school, my hours were more predictable but somewhat more stressful, I did start an exercise program. This endeavor improved my health but suffered the same fate as my medical career...It soon consumed me to the point that it was no longer enjoyable.
Over time with the help of my family and some awesome (yes I use this word a lot!) counselors my life started to come into balance. Neuroscience has shown us that our emotions and what "drives" us are part hormonal and part learned from our environment. It doesn't matter if it is a drug, alcohol, food, exercise, or even work, (although some behaviors are more socially acceptable than others) the physiology is the same.
What really helped me was "surrendering" some aspects of my life to others...I don't keep my own schedule, I just go to my computer every day and check the calendar, days off are embedded, clinics are busy but not overbooked ....and I don't feel pressure to overwork or experience guilt when I go on vacation anymore. Every morning I wake up at the same time (also go to bed at the same time) and follow this routine; write down 3 things in my life that I am grateful for, take a very hot shower, followed by turning the temperature down until it is very cold by average standards (this exercises your blood vessels and also causes your brain to release certain neurotransmitters that affect your emotions in a very positive way) then I do something called somatic meditation.
At work, we only have a few rules, we let each other know if we are having a bad day and we all make a point to thank each other at the end of the day. I make sure that I spend time outdoors every day (no matter the weather) for at least a short time, walk with Kate, play with one of our dogs, and go to my sit spot. I don't go to the gym, but I do activities that I enjoy. Wednesday nights, Kate goes to a knitting group, and I go to a cabin in the woods with a group of "dudes " ( none from my workplace or profession) and we sit around a campfire talk, and "do outdoor projects".
This may all sound very "pollyanna like". We don't all hold hands and sing "kumbaya" all day but, these activities and "rituals" act to enhance relationships and a sense of "connection" with not only each other but with the planet. This looks like a lot of self-care. You may think that 'this guy is crazy" (and to some extent you are correct) but this evolved over my lifetime...Not everyone needs to do all of this but you need to consider forming some type of plan. I wish that I would have considered this subject much earlier in my life. I learned a lot of this through my work as the assistant dean of students, it is very common for our students, resident physicians, faculty & staff to become overwhelmed in today's environment. Self-care is our "immunization" against burnout and a key component to a healthy life.
Yes, I have an integrated practice, I have not used anti-anxiety medications in my practice, my staff and I train our patients in these practices instead..works great in my sports medicine clinics we most often see patients with complex issues, they have been seen by multiple providers, some have had multiple surgeries...many have unresolved musculoskeletal pathology that needs to be resolved but many have social and stress issues that combine to worsen their musculoskeletal problems. Without dressing these other aspects of their health, we cannot help them heal. These techniques are often used in Pacific Rim countries we believe that these skills very much enhance western medicine.
In my role as assistant dean, I was involved with any student who was experiencing stress, etc. affecting their studies, we used these techniques. Also, I started a week-long elective at our farm to teach students these techniques.

Bryan Riddle
Nevada, USA
Please introduce yourself
My name is Bryan Riddle. I was born and raised in rural Oklahoma, near Foyil/Bushyhead in the Cherokee Nation. I lived there my whole life until last year when I moved with my wife and three daughters to Las Vegas, Nevada, Southern Paiute territory. I am a data analyst and system administrator working remotely for the Registrar’s Office of a state university.
How do you practice self-care?
My practice of self-care begins with a mindset. I must believe I am worthy of good health, achieving my goals, and sharing my achievements with others. This mindset fuels my practice. Maintaining a self-care mindset is also an intentional goal of my practice. Mindful recognition of my emotions and fears without judgment is necessary for maintaining my self-care practice.
I practice self-care by eating nutritious plant-based foods, exercising regularly, and practicing mindfulness while running/walking in nature, drawing, crafting, playing guitar, and writing.
When did you start being aware of your health conditions and the influence of dietary change on your health?
I recognized I was addicted to food and tobacco in 2014 and started studying how to help myself.
I found books on mindfulness by Thich Nhat Hanh and Alan Watts particularly beneficial in helping me to understand my own mind and addiction. I also studied nutrition such as Joel Fuhrman’s books. Fuhrman promoted a nutrient-rich diet heavy in whole plant-based foods. This helped me start to understand nutrition and feel how different foods and activities affected me. I also read many scientific journals and became especially interested in blue zone dietary habits.
Over the next few years, I made many small dietary changes. In 2017, I quit tobacco, dairy, and overeating all at once. I started working out for 15-20 minutes every day because physical exercise is very beneficial in tobacco cessation. I also did not have the stamina to work out for very long at once. I work out much less frequently now than I did then, but my workouts are typically much longer in duration.
How do vegan/ plant-based diets improve your physical and mental health?
In 2019, I stopped consuming and purchasing products made from animals.
One major benefit is that I stay thin and fit with very little exercise unlike when I was eating heavy foods containing meat or dairy. Also, I am lactose intolerant, so completely giving up dairy was a huge benefit to my gastrointestinal health.
A plant-based diet is not a magic cure for IBS or general anxiety disorder. I had to learn how to prepare and cook beans and many vegetables so I can eat them without stomach pains. While eating a plant-based diet, I still must practice self-care and pay attention to my thoughts. My diet does help anxiety though because I attain deeper levels of meditation and mindfulness since removing animal products from my lifestyle.
Who walked you through the process?
My wife and I went on this process together without any mentors or guides. We are both self-driven and support each other. I genuinely enjoy studying and academic research. We immersed ourselves in nutrition literature, documentaries, and online communities devoted to wellness, nutrition, and vegan lifestyles.
What struggles did you have to overcome when switching to a new eating habit?
I was raised in the woods of rural northeast Oklahoma. I am from a culture that fishes nearly year-round and hunts deer, quail, and a variety of smaller animals when in season. In my childhood, my family raised cattle and chickens. Animal agriculture is a major part of my upbringing and heritage. I never enjoyed hunting or fishing for sport, but when I was young I fished often to feed my family.
It was and is incredibly difficult to explain my decision to step away from that lifestyle to those who are still in it. People want a single reason, but I have not yet been able to summarize my multi-year journey into a conversational explanation.
Another challenge was that I am a cook, currently just for friends and family. I was a pizza cook and restaurant manager professionally until I went to college at 28 years old.
After removing animal products from my diet, I had to modify every recipe I knew. I had to rethink many of the recipes my granny and my mother taught me to cook and every recipe I learned as a pizza cook.
I did not find a good milk-free cheese recipe or store option for a couple of years, so my pizzas and calzones never turned out. I started getting used to using eggplant and artichoke instead of cheese when my wife found a great cashew cheese recipe.
Do you have any advice for me and my future readers about the importance of nutrition?
My advice is to study nutrition from peer-reviewed sources. Nutritional imbalances can occur in vegetarian, plant-based, and omnivorous diets. Paying attention to how your body feels and reacts to different foods is important.
When I decided to completely remove all animal products from my diet, I went overboard purchasing vegan multivitamins, and vegan protein powder. I also tracked every meal including all my recipes in a micronutrient tracking app. These days I do not do anything so time-consuming or expensive. I make sure I get enough sunlight for vitamin D. I regularly add ingredients fortified with B12 such as nutritional yeast into recipes.
When you are hungry, eat something with nutrients. Sugar, coffee, soda, and many other foods and drinks suppress your appetite without meeting the nutritional deficiency that is causing your hunger. Junk food is great for occasional snacking but meeting nutritional needs leads to improved health and reduces the likelihood of developing or redeveloping an addiction to foods with low or no nutritional value.

Jess Zadra
California, USA
Please introduce yourself
Jess Zadra. Clinical Nutritionist. I have an MS in nutrition from the National University of Natural Medicine and am a CNS (Certified Nutrition Specialist).
How do you practice self-care?
Self-care for me is huge and is something that is such an integral part of my life that it's become fairly intuitive for me on a daily basis. Meaning, I am generally checking in with myself to see what it is I need that week, day, or hour to keep moving forward. I rely on a range of activities to meet my self-care needs. Depending on the day it could mean a short walk to clear my head, a longer hike to really ground myself in nature, or attending yoga to really calm my mind. I am also a daily meditator and have a pretty regular self-reflection practice that involves journaling, self-hypnotherapy, and a little spirituality. Some days though self-care may mean laying on the floor and resting my eyes for 15 minutes, or spending an evening alone to catch up on my favorite shows. I am someone who both needs and enjoys my alone time and generally only has the energy to do awesome things in life/in the world when this cup is filled first.
What inspired you to become a health coach/ nutritionist?
I think like many, my own health journey inspired me to go back to school for nutrition initially, what got me inspired to go into clinical practice and continues to inspire me daily in my career is the ability that I feel I have daily to make an impact on someone else's life in a positive way. This doesn’t necessarily mean that this is always through providing nutritional advice, but more so takes place in the space I share with others.
How could nutrition/ healthy food impact our health, wellness, and well-being? In other words, please share the holistic approach of nutrition/ food towards our health.
While there are many approaches one can take with nutrition that can potentially have a positive impact on health, first and foremost I think that simply acknowledging this potential gives many a sense of hope in a realm where it may have previously been lost. In other words, it gives someone the opportunity to have more autonomy over their health and life if they so choose. This is not to say that all ailments can be solved through food or even that an ailment necessarily needs to exist in order to want to care about what you eat or the food you put into your body. It is more so about the fact that when you start caring about food and understanding both the healing power of nature and also, some serious problems in our food system today - a sort of light bulb goes off that allows someone to say…okay - I may not be able to control x,y,z, but this is what I’m going to do in my life to make sure that I give myself the best chance I have at… you fill in the blank!
Which achievement(s) throughout your career that you feel the proudest of?
While I’m still quite early in my career there are many achievements I’m proud of. I’m proud of every clinical role I’ve ever had and I’m proud of myself for getting my CNS certification as that took a lot of extra work for me. Recently I had a presentation at this year's ANA conference on nutrition for mental health and that was a big achievement for me. Most importantly though, I’m just proud that I’ve continued my journey in this field and continue to have new goals to look forward to.
Which challenges did you encounter throughout your career?
I think when you work in a certain industry it’s easy to get familiar with whatever a supposed glass ceiling is in that particular field - meaning, it’s normal to only make this amount of money, to only ever have X amount of clients or an expectation that everything has to be hard. For me, the biggest challenges I’ve had really just been in examining these expectations and asking myself if these expectations have to be true for me. When I’ve found myself up against a supposed limitation it’s normally because I’ve accepted some version of a story as my reality when in actuality, all it’s taken is a shift in my mindset, or a new goal in order to keep moving forward.
Do you have any advice for me and my readers?
If this mainly relates to working in the nutrition field, I would say to get clarity on what you want, and then to actually start working towards it - even if you feel you’re not ready. In my experience and from those I’ve learned a lot from...you never feel entirely ready. If you don’t have clarity, start engaging anyway - as this usually opens it up. It’s okay to change your mind- go down new paths, etc. I have a primary path I’ve followed for the past few years. Every so often over this course, I’ve explored a few offshoots - some of which I did only to say… ‘Well that’s not for me’ but I wouldn’t have known or gained that insight if I didn’t go down it - and there are ALWAYS lessons that have come from each circumstance. All of which is to say, try not to let analysis be your paralysis.

Danielle DMello
Michigan, USA
Please introduce yourself
Hello! My name is Danielle D’Mello, and I am currently in the Naturopathic Doctor program (ND2) at NUNM. I recently moved to Portland from Lansing, MI!
How do you practice self-care?
I practice self-care in a variety of ways, from taking time to do a skincare routine to checking on plants and doing the upkeep needed there to spending time at home with my two cats and boyfriend. I don't think self-care needs to be glamorous but just little things that make you happy. Although it's becoming a little colder, I have also really enjoyed going on walks and exploring all the beautiful nature Oregon has.
In your own language, how do you define "happiness"? What makes you happy?
This is a tough one! I think happiness is something that you create and it's defined however you want it to be. I'm a huge mindset person and I believe that whatever you set your mind to, you can achieve it; whether positive or negative. I think for me, happiness is found in spending time with friends and family (and my fur babies), going to the Farmer's Market, and reveling in all the amazing things people are creating, building a home, and growing both personally and professionally, etc. I truly try to find joy and happiness each day, even in seemingly mundane things.
Why did you decide to pursue the ND program? Do you plan to specialize in any area?
I've always been interested in medicine, but it wasn't until my own health struggles in 2018, that I began the search for Naturopathic medicine, although at the time, I didn't know there was a field like this. My plan currently is to specialize in nutrition. I'm fascinated by all things nutrition, but more specifically, how to heal relationships with food after disordered eating. I grew up in a time when body dysmorphia and diet culture ran rampant and I know a lot of people still struggle with how to properly fuel their bodies. My goal is to be able to help people overcome food fears and obstacles to allow them to find joy in eating and take away some of the pressure and weight that is associated with it.
I remember that you mentioned your love for indoor plants and cats. Could you please share what types of plants and cats you have and how you take care of them? Do they bring any impacts on your health and wellness?
I have two 8-year-old cats, one is a short-haired orange tabby named Ginger, and the other is a Norwegian tree cat, and her name is Mittens. They both have larger-than-life personalities and I find so much joy in caring for them. I would definitely say they have a positive impact on my health and wellness. They always seem to know when cuddles are needed and they are always so talkative, so you never feel alone!
My boyfriend actually really started the plant trend as he is the one with the green thumb. I mostly do supportive work with him while he cares for them. We have SO many plants, but honestly, I think it's one of the things that makes a place feel like home. There's this feeling of calm and comfort the plants bring us.
I think one of our proudest plants is our Monstera! It's gotten quite large from when we bought it and is definitely a showstopper. Some other plants we have: fiddleleaf fig, lemon tree, several varieties of pothos plants, aloe, money tree, snake plant, several carnivorous plants (including fly traps, pitcher plants, and sundew), succulents, cacti, etc. In spring, we will also plant seeds for all sorts of herbs, fruits, and veggies to eat through summer. Our ultimate goal is to be able to have a garden that we pick our produce fresh from before meals!

Lydia Akoto
West Africa
Please introduce yourself
Hi, my name is Lydia, I’m currently working on my dual in med school for ND/MsGH degree. I studied psychology and anthropology with a minor in sociology in college.
My career goals include becoming a licensed doctor in Oregon and a few other states as well. I want to have a community clinic in Colorado and in west Africa someday.
Do you practice self-care?
It definitely depends on what I’m feeling or what I need to reset from. Sometimes self-care is just laying down in the quiet and listening to soothing music. I love to eat and journal, so I sometimes practice self-care by trying new recipes for my friends, singing, or dancing. I also do deep breathing and skin brushing or even journaling, practicing mindful self-compassion such as soothing touch, walking barefoot writing letters to myself etc. Mainly I just pay attention to my body and mental state to be sure I’m in a good headspace.
While attending the ND program, do you have any favorite holistic therapy? Please share your opinions about how they impact humans' health and well-being.
I haven’t really found a holistic therapy that resonates with me, but I do like hydrotherapy and mindful self-compassion, mindful self-compassion allows us to get in touch with who we are mentally emotionally, and physically, learning ways to get in tune with our body. Hydrotherapy is great for our health because it assists in circulatory functions in the body which is great. There are different versions of it and the one I’ve used the most is constitutional hydrotherapy, not only is it great for our overall health, the alternative hot and cold can help our body obtain optimal health, I’ve had people use it for edema, for headaches, for muscle aches and many others.
Do you have any advice for me and my reader?
Yes, as cliche as it sounds; your health is your wealth, sometimes healthcare can be as simple as eating the right foods and staying hydrated. Food is indeed medicine, like a little bit of black pepper in your meals will help your body absorb the nutrients you need better, how cool is that?! Ginger and turmeric are great for inflammation in the body, and so is garlic. Who doesn’t like garlic?! It’s the simple things, but also remember, too much of a ‘good’ thing can be bad, so don’t overdo it with the ginger and pepper and garlic for ‘magical healing’. As with everything, time is the main factor.
Aksana Danilava
Belarus
Belly dancing is a type of art that I would watch on TV or Youtube, but I have never thought of joining one. Thanks to Mrs. Danilava, a professional Bellydance dancer, a Belly dance instructor, as well as a personal and group trainer, I had enough courage to try out the Belly dancing class. Now I totally fall in love with it!
I used to believe that this movement was only for skinny and beautiful women, it was such a false idea! Belly dancing can be considered a type of art that emphasized self-expression, "Dancing is all about movement and strengthening your muscles. It is also an expression of your true self"- Mrs. Danilava shared.
My apology for the low-quality image that could not demonstrate her spirit, flexibility, positivity, and professional dancing movement. She has been practicing belly dance for over 10 years; therefore, it naturally is a part of her now. Whenever I was in her class, I could sense the existence of confidence, enthusiasm, freedom, and joy through her every single dance movement. This energy definitely attracts and inspires people.
In her opinion, belly dance definitely is a great exercise to promote self-care, general health, and wellness.
Ngoc Le
Bien Hoa, Vietnam
My mother and Ngoc's mother are best friends. I guess that we now are inheriting that valuable friendship. Childhood trauma depleted her true self and energy. She was alive but completely dead inside. Even though everyone was worried about her, they had no idea how to help. Ngoc is so fortunate that she has a mother (Mrs. Ha) who is so caring, thoughtful, and a good listener. As a mother, Ms. Ha could not bear to see her daughter struggling with that agony. Hence, days and nights, she was determined to discover a healing modality that could save her daughter. Since then, Ngoc decided to devote her time, mind, and to practicing yoga. All the efforts paid off. Like a fading flower met a pouring rain, she slowly found herself back and lived a happy, healthy, and peaceful life. She shared that she felt calmer, more confident, flexible, and more resilient after each yoga session.
I was first introduced to yoga by Ngoc. I did not genuinely enjoy it when I was younger. However, now, I definitely like it!
Jake
New York, USA
Please introduce yourself
My name is Jake. I live and work in New York.
How do you practice self-care?
I exercise, eat decently, praise myself and relax.
What do you think about gratitude?
Gratitude can help me put the challenges in a manageable perspective. I perceived that we should not only feel grateful for what we already had, but also what we are going to get.
What do you value the most in your life?
I value family and meaningful relationship. I always ensure that I have enough to share and support my loved ones whenever they need.
Do you have any advice for me and my readers?
We should mindfully practice loving and appreciating ourselves.
samuel cooper
Wellington, New Zealand
Please introduce yourself
I am a solo pianist from Wellington, New Zealand. I am mostly self taught - I had lessons from age 5-11, but I have found it easier to play/compose by ear without sheet music and by learning from YouTube. This way I can play the songs I love, when I want and most importantly, how I want! I compose contemporary/post classical solo piano compositions that reflect my mental health struggles I have had over the years - one with a complex relationship breakup, and more recently, alcohol. I also love to play and learn covers - 70's and 80's rock are my favourite tunes to play, as well as pop piano songs/ballads. My great uncle, Peter Cooper (1918-2004), was a well-known concert pianist in New Zealand and across the world. He was a war pianist in the second world war. I don't play quite as well as he did, but I think I got his genes!!
How do you practice self-care?
A combination of things: playing/listening to music, taking a bath once a week, exercise (lifting weights), journaling every day - writing down the positives (and when needed, negatives) of each day and what I am looking forward to in the next days/weeks. I have recently delved into breathing exercises before bed also, and using positive affirmations such as 'you got this', 'i'll be okay' etc. I also read a book before bed called 'note to self - the secrets of calm' by Rebekah Ballagh, which is an illustrative/short sentences that help put you into a positive frame of mind - I highly recommend it for self care.
I can resonate with the healing and mindful energy that you integrate into music and piano practice. Do you believe that music can heal us?
Yes - absolutely, both from a listening and playing perspective. Lyrics and instrumental backings of a song (for me at least) can help digest emotions. Sometimes when I am down, hearing a song with lyrics that I can relate to help me process my feelings and lets me sit with them and knowing somebody else in the world (the artist/songwriter) has felt that same vibe. Music can also be interpreted in any way you feel as well which helps!
If you do not mind, please share how the practicing piano can positively impact your health, well-being, and wellness.
Playing and practicing piano positively impacts my health in multiple ways. When I am in a bright/happy/content mood, i often sit down and jam out my favourite songs/learn some and add to my repertoire and post a cover to instagram or facebook. After a bad day at work, or been rejected/friendzoned by a possible lover etc, I am able to sit down at the piano and improvise a new melody which digests what is going on in my head into music - to me this has the same effect on me as if I open up to a friend about what I may be going through. After improvising my feelings, i feel satisfied because i have a new melody (I always record on my phone so any random bit of magic that my fingers could produce isn't lost) that can be later structured into a proper composition. It turns what is a negative into a positive, and I feel a sense of relief and joy that I have been productive and achieved something. When performing, I am always extremely nervous beforehand (regardless of how much practice/preparation I do), but I often go into autopilot and the time passes very quickly and I get a great sense of satisfaction when it's over.
Is there anything else you would like to share with us?
A key motivation for my music is to raise awareness and money for mental health. For my album, 'breaking the silence' that I released in 2020, I raised $2,680 for the Voices of Hope Mental Health charity through a fundraiser and physical album CD sales. I believe that people openly talking about mental health and their experiences helps break down the stigma, and helps somebody who may be suffering silently to speak up to somebody they trust. I plan at the end of 2023 to do a few concerts in my hometown that raises money for the same charity above.
Outside of piano, I am learning to produce music on a digital audio work station (logic pro), how to record music on my home piano. My goal is to be able to record, mix and master my own work to save money from having to spend $100-150NZD an hour in recording studios and paying for mixing/mastering. We are blessed to be living in an age where you have free/cheap access to endless tutorials where you can learn new skills gradually over time, and I am quite determined to be able to learn to do this - my songs may take a dip in production quality to start with but I am sure they would get better with time!
Outside of music itself, I am a policy advisor for my 9-5 day job, and enjoy going to the gym playing sport (cricket, basketball and indoor netball). I tend to be an 'active relaxer' and don't waste too much time in my life. For the moment, music is a hobby and passion, but my dream would be able to do it full time or part time, and cut back days on my day job to a 3 day a week role as opposed to 5 days a week!
Do you have any advice for me and my readers?
My advice is to remember that it is never weak to speak about your mental health, that you are loved and appreciated by many people. Know that the world is a better place with you in it. Even in the dark and bleak times that we all go through occasionally in life, know there is always hope and help available. Fight to find that one positive in each day and what you're looking forward to in the next day(s), week(s), month(s) and year(s). Do something that makes you happy each day and try new things until you find something that makes you tick!
Thanks very much for reading about my music - please feel free to stream my music and follow me/connect with me on my various social media platforms!
Anaya Rickford
Portland, OR
Please introduce yourself
My name is Anaya Rickford. I am a florist who does freelance work and shop work with a little farm work too.
How do you practice self-care?
I practice self care by prioritizing healing work. Every week I take one day to rejuvenate my soul. I look at my past and who I am today. Spend time with my body and practice mindfulness. And I dream of places I want to go in the future! Practically this looks like: going to therapy and using the entire day to do what my body needs, whether that’s crying or hiking, journaling or painting, staying in Pjs or taking care of something that is stressing me out.
Throughout the week I take care to be in touch with my body and leave no emotion behind. When I feel something, I investigate it. Even when it is painful. It can be tedious but honestly this practice helps me have a relationship with my body. This way, my body can communicate with me what it needs from me so I know how to take care of it.
How does working your dream job make you feel?
There was a time when I didn’t think I would get this far with flowers. I was working in a grocery store when it started. I wasn’t hired as a florist but in a pinch my boss put me in the department. I fell in love with its artistic nature. I dreamed of one day getting to do floral the way I do today. And I DID IT! I am so proud of myself for getting here.
But the thing about dreams…is we keep making them! This was once my dream job but now that I made it, I am dreaming of other new things that I may be able to achieve one day.
I would say the main thing about working at a dream job that I have learned is that I am capable of making my life how I want it to be. Which is more meaningful then the actual achievement of having the job.
Do you believe that plants and flowers have a healing power that positively impracts on our health, wellness, and well-being?
Without question plants and flowers help heal! Your plant collection at home is an outward sign of how you are taking care of yourself. When I’m feeling low, my plants take a hit. When I’m lost in the chaos of life, sometimes seeing under-watered plants makes me realize that I am also under watering myself! And of course, the practice of slowing down and watering your plants just does something to help us see the beauty in life.
An of course with flowers: it’s the smell, the colors, the memories you may have with them. There is just something so hopeful about flowers! A representation of growth and temporary beauty. Such a reflection of each of our lives. We are made of the same things as flowers. We are connected to them.
As a professional florist, do you have any suggestions about creative activities that involve with plants and flowers?
For anyone who is interested in getting to be around flowers and plants more, I would recommend keeping them around your home. When you see a flower that you adore, hold it close by drying it in a heavy book! You can frame it or tape it in a flower journal. I would also recommend finding a farm/ Garden to volunteer at! Even a community garden. It’s even more nourishing to be around people who are willing to share their stories and wisdom.
Do you have any advice for me and my readers?
My advice is to do the work it takes to heal from your past. It is a long process. But this is the best self care we can provide for ourselves and those around us.
Self- care isn’t always about painting your nails or taking a bath. These things are wonderful! But sometimes the best care we can provide for ourselves hurts a little before it gets better. But I promise it’s worth it!
Amy wike
Portland, OR
Please introduce yourself.
Hi, I'm Amy! I’m a watercolor and digital illustration artist based in Portland, Oregon with a playful, colorful, and endearingly quirky style. The guiding values behind my art—approachability, connection, and investigating the ways we observe, learn, and perceive—are present in everything I create. The more formal bio: since 2017, I have worked with individual and corporate clients to create custom artwork and designs including portraits, branding, print and web materials, surface pattern design, and event visuals. My energetic hand-painted style is inspired by small joys and finding delight in the everyday. Notable clients include Friends of the Smithsonian, Regeneron, Democratic Legislative Campaign Committee, Kula Cloth, the Portland Pickles, and many local businesses. I enjoy offering regular Intro to Watercolor workshops to local audiences and vending at maker markets around town. Exhibition highlights include being a selected artist in a group exhibition organized by the Norman Rockwell Museum that traveled internationally over the course of five years; solo exhibitions at Gallery GoGo (Portland, OR, 2021) and VisArts Gallery (Rockville, MD, 2016); commissioned site-specific installations for the Torpedo Factory (Alexandria, VA, 2018), CulturalDC (Washington, DC, 2018), and Art All Night (Washington, DC, 2019); and many community group exhibitions in the Mid-Atlantic Region and the Pacific Northwest. I am the recipient of an RACC Make / Learn / Build grant (2021) and the DC Commission on the Arts and Humanities Artist Fellowship (2020).
How do you practice self-care?I have a loose definition of self-care -- I think of it as anything that nurtures me and brings me back to myself. That could be scheduling one on one time with a close friend, painting my nails and reading a book between coats on a lazy Saturday, or taking my paints to a park and painting whatever is in front of me. I try to recognize when something small or otherwise mundane brings me joy, and along that vein I also keep a gratitude journal, where I write down something I'm grateful for when I wake up each morning. It's filled with a lot of predictable entries -- coffee, a good night's sleep, friends -- but starting the day that way makes me feel like I'm already moving my day in the right direction.
What inspired you to draw that masterpiece? (The one about anxiety and mental health I bought at your booth)I made that piece in 2020, several months into Covid lockdown. Like the rest of the world, I was feeling lots of feelings and they were intersecting and colliding in new and different ways that I couldn't quite parse out. My cheeky, unofficial name for the piece is “feelings are hard” — sometimes one emotion can sneakily disguise itself as another, even ones that seem like they should be on the opposite side of the spectrum. There are some things about joy that can feel similar to grief or heartache, or the same thing that once sparked joy can later provoke something unexpected like anger or melancholy. I was trying to capture the overall idea that emotions are fluid, abstract, and impossible to capture with verbal language alone.
How do you think that color, drawing, and any other types of art are a good way to practice self-care?To me, anything that isn’t a rote, mindless task takes creativity and anything that brings you closer to an introspective mindset can be considered meditative. I think drawing and painting specifically can help to shake us loose and let go a bit, especially doodling. Whether it's with a playful or earnest intent, drawing and doodling help us look at our thoughts and feelings from a different perspective.
How do you feel before, during, and after drawing?Before I start drawing, I almost always feel overwhelmed. Even though I have been drawing most days for years, I still think something like "how do I do this?" when I pick up a pencil and look at a blank piece of paper. How I feel during and after can really run the gamut -- if I'm getting into a flow and feel like things are going in the direction I want them to, I feel fulfilled, proud, and content overall. If things AREN'T going the way I want them to, I feel frustrated, incompetent, and discouraged. I try to take a break in those moments.
Do you have any advice for me and my readers?The most centering and helpful motto I return to often is the idea of getting out of my own way. At any given time, the same thing that a week ago was helping me might this week be something that keeps me down or hinders my progress and growth. For example, I might sit at my desk for half an hour doing nothing because I can’t think of anything to draw but I’ve promised myself I’ll draw a little something first-thing every day, or I might hold my other tasks hostage until I pitch five new businesses. Recognizing when a goal, task, or practice I've set for myself has turned on me or isn’t serving me anymore allows me to use my time wisely and to get on with the many tasks still on my plate that AREN’T hanging me up.
Soledad diaz
Dallas, Texas
Please introduce yourself.
My name is Soledad Diaz and I am a current ND student, and a recent graduate from the Master of Science in Clinical Nutrition program at the National University of Natural Medicine (NUNM). I am originally from Dallas, Texas and moved to the beautiful hill country where I received my Bachelor's of Science in Biochemistry from Schreiner University. My current medical interests include mental health, pediatrics, and physical medicine with a focus on nutrition, trauma-informed care, and botanical medicine.I am the co-founder and owner of Modern Living Kitchen. We are a small local microgreens business. Our mission statement is the following:'We aim to build a sustainable way of indoor farming, provide a solution to food deserts, and help inspire individuals to grow their own nutrient dense foods such as microgreens'.
How do you practice self-care?I practice self-care by allowing myself to rest without feeling guilty about it. I will take a long hot shower or hot bath with epsom salt/flowers. I will take a walk to the park and go on a short hike to spend time with nature. I will watch my favorite show repeatedly. I will dance my little heart out to ignite my soul. I will go to the gym or take a hot yoga class. I will nourish my body with sweets and nutrient dense foods.
What inspired you to start up a Microgreen business?My passion is to make nutrient-dense and healthy food accessible to everyone at all times. I believe every human has the right to have accessible nutrient-dense and healthy foods. Unfortunately, there are thousands of communities that live in a food desert, and the only thing available is processed foods. As I was doing research for my nutrition capstone project, I felt the solution to food deserts is microgreens. Microgreens can be grown at home, and they only take about 7-10 days from seed to harvest. Amazing! Ultimate fresh local produce in your home. As we continued to grow microgreens, we were encouraged by a farmers market manager to apply to be a vendor. We were then highly motivated to start a business and provide local produce to the Rocky Butte Farmers Market.
How do you think that microgreen makes an impact on our health and wellness? Have you noticed any changes since you started growing microgreen?Microgreens have a great impact on your health by reducing chronic inflammation in the body. Microgreens are more nutrient-dense and antioxidant-rich than their mature vegetables. They are easy and convenient because they require little to no preparation time in the kitchen, they are packed with immersed flavor, and can easily be added to your everyday food such as avocado toast, sandwiches, soups, and pizza just to name a few. The potential health benefits of microgreens include the prevention of inflammatory pathways in chronic diseases such as obesity, cardiovascular disease, and diabetes. 'Consumption of red cabbage microgreen attenuated C-reactive protein (CRP) and tumor necrosis factor alpha (TNF-a) induced in the liver by high-fat diets.
I've noticed that it's easier to include fresh, healthy, and nutrient-dense foods in my everyday meals with microgreens. Before, I would only eat about one to two types of vegetables per meal, but now I can have up to three to five different varieties along with microgreens. The addition of microgreens also makes my meals look beautiful as a garnish. The diverse range of microgreens also supports my gastrointestinal health, digestion, and gut microbiome.
Kecia fox
Portland, OR
Please introduce yourself.
Hello, my name is Kecia Fox and I'm a Licensed Acupuncturist in Portland Oregon. I specialize in the treatment of acute and chronic pain conditions, as well as nervous system dysregulation and skin health. I'm passionate about working collaboratively with patients using a holistic lens that recognizes we are dynamic beings that mirror the cycles of nature.
How do you practice self-care?Self care is a critical part of being a practitioner. You can't show up fully for your patients if you are burnt out. I make sure to get acupuncture, move my body, spend time in nature, eat nourishing foods and play! Spending time away from social media is also a crucial part of my self-care.
What inspired you to pursue an Acupuncture career?I was struggling with anxiety, migraines and digestive issues for many years in my 20s. I saw an MD who was very holistic and recommended western herbs and acupuncture after finding that all tests showed "nothing was wrong" with me. After working with an acupuncturist and taking herbs for several months, I went from migraines multiple times a month to only a couple of times a year. My improved anxiety levels also had a significant impact on the quality of my digestion. Not only did I see results, but I felt heard and validated through the process and was able to connect to my body in a way I never had before. This led me down the path to study western herbalism and eventually Chinese medicine.
Do you mind sharing how cupping and Gua Sha improve health, wellness, and well-being?Both cupping and gua sha are invaluable modalities in traditional Chinese medicine. I love using them when there is pain or tension in the muscles and fascia. They reduce adhesions in the tissues, promote blood flow and create a mild immune response to the area for repair. Many of my patients notice instant relief.
Do you have any advice for me and my readers?
Don't wait to seek support for your health. The longer folks wait to address health concerns, the longer it takes to resolve them. I lovingly refer to traditional Chinese medicine as "slow" medicine. It's not the quick fix or band aid approach we have come to know in the western medical model. We work with long term lifestyle changes and gentle modalities that take time to integrate and change physiology. Spend time searching for a provider you resonate with and know it may take you a couple attempts to find the right practitioner (it did for me!). It's important you have a quality relationship with your practitioner, as they are there to support you for the long haul!
For those studying or practicing the medicine, my advice is to prioritize time in nature. Observe it, feel it, fight for it. Nature is the foundation of this medicine. If we lose that connection, we will have diluted and disrespected this incredible medicine.
amanda mills
Denver, Colorado
Please introduce yourself.
My name is Amanda Mills. I’m a local sound healer/ceremonialist in Denver, Colorado.
How do you practice self-care?I practice self care by always listening not only to just my body but also my inner voice. My inner voice or intuition always bring me to what my physical and spiritual self need. When I listen to my intuition, it’s the best form of self care to me. Listening to my intuition helps me know when to slow down, meditate, channel things, and take time for myself. When listening to my intuition I’m able to keep myself from being drained or being overworked. It helps direct me to step back and recognize when I need to tend to myself the most and what to focus my time and energy to, that way I stay grounded and aligned. Some simple practices I do are daily meditation, Epsom salt baths, and breath work.
What guided you to the healing path? Do you mind sharing a little bit about your practice?
I’ve always had a tendency to be a healer. I’ve always worked service jobs and even went into the healthcare field before I got into my spiritual work. So I’ve always been in the healing path most of my life I would say. I always felt I wanted to help people while having a lot of empathy. What got me to the spiritual healing path was my own experience with energy. When I was going through a rough point in my life, I had the biggest spiritual awakening. I knew my whole life, I felt and experienced certain things that I couldn’t explain to other people; including my close friends and family. I ended up finding a small spiritual community who experienced energy and really powerful spiritual experiences such as past lives, multi- dimensional energies and just simple vibrations of energy at a whole different level to the point we all felt we could channel and be a channel for others, I would experience certain downloads just by being at a high spiritual vibration. By experiencing these things and knowing there were other people who experienced similar things, I dived right into exploring my spirituality further. While doing that I realized I could still be the healer I always was, but could help others heal not only physically but spiritually also, which is just as important as the physical.
In my sound baths, I try to get the receivers back to their center and true inner peace of self that way I can be a channel for them to tap into a higher spiritual vibration and hopefully they would be able to recognize and activate their true inner power and hopefully even be able to channel where they are at and want to be at spirituality.
Could you please explain how a sound bath amazingly heals us?Sound baths are so healing! The biggest reason I love being able to facilitate them for big groups or just for one person one on one.
There are scientific and spiritual benefits that I’ve listed below:Scientific Affects:
*Increase relaxation and known to help with insomnia
*Known to reduce anxiety and depression
*Enhances focus and concentration
*Improves creativity
*Improves immune function
Spiritual Effects
*The vibrations of the sounds can bring you into a deep meditative state
*When in a deep meditative state, we can come back to our center and connecting with our inner peace and truth.
*Connecting with our inner truth helps us dive and tap into a deep spiritual journey; receiving messages or downloads to activate and bring out our soul light. When our soul light is brought out or activated, we can connect with our true inner power and our highest selves.
Do you have any advice for me and my readers?
I think I may have mentioned this in one of the previous questions; but the biggest advice I can give is listen to your inner voice/intuition. When you are able to tap into what your intuition is telling you, you will be able to be grounded and aligned with your true self, and when you are aligned with your true self the more at peace you feel. When you find this truth and inner peace within yourself you will be able to manifest your own reality. I can say from first hand experience, listening to my inner voice has brought me to my reality today and I am forever grateful. I’m living a reality I never thought was possible! A daily tip would be find at least ten to fifteen minutes a day to meditate. Whether if it’s zoning out, listening to music; or just being. Just find a few minutes a day to check in with yourself and inner voice.
Tru tate
Portland, Oregon
Please introduce yourself.
Tru Tate, Outreach Specialist, Family & Community Alliance, LifeWorks, NWColorado.
How do you practice self-care?Daily morning prayer and meditation, daily walk, unplugging with movies, books or audio books, hanging out with friends, caring for my plants, creative projects.
How do you manage to maintain a balance between work, personal life, and taking care of the family?
I try to fully unplug from work when I'm not on the clock. Computer and work cell out of site. Trust God that he will take care of whatever I didn't get to for that day and things that are out of my control, prayer. Family always comes first and I'm very fortunate in that I have a supervisor who supports that and all other aspects of self-care.
What is your opinion about applying mindfulness to parenting skills?
I think it's a good idea. I would like to find a way to make it feel accessible to parents. I think the practice is foreign to many and they have a hard time believing that it can be helpful. I like the idea of it being placed in the category of a parenting skill/tool as your question does. I may try to approach it this way. I teach the importance of pausing, being present with your children and being aware of your emotions. I think I could communicate with parents that mindfulness can be used to do all three.
How do appropriate parenting skills impact children's health, wellness, and well-being?
Appropriate parenting skills aid brain development and learning. They reduce stress which makes children less susceptible to illness. They facilitate healthy relationships through the teaching of relational and social skills including empathy, communication, responsibility, respect, problem solving and emotion regulation.
Would you like to share any other advice or resources with me and my readers? (They could relate to self-care or parenting knowledge).
ADVICE-As a facilitator and probably with all things, practice is primary. Take advantage of all opportunities to practice . Don't be afraid to fail. In regard to facilitating/teaching I've found the following four things to be helpful in my journey as a facilitator and family advocate: 1. Studies show that empathy and good listening skills can be the most therapeutic thing one can provide. 2. There are no magic bullets in parenting, only tools to get comfortable using and tweaking per situation, child and developmental stage. 3. Parents feel encouraged and more confident by the idea that they are the experts on their own children. 4. People typically only take away two to three things from any training. Most parenting curriculums come with an abundance of information. Focus on building up parents and the core concepts which are the same in all the curriculums I've been trained in.
RESOURCES- OPEC and the studies of ACES and P(A)CES.
Burcu koleli
Ankara, Turkey
Please introduce yourself.
I am Burcu Koleli. I am from Turkey, Ankara. I live in the south of Seattle, Washington. I am working as a visual artist and designer. I am also a passionate intersectional ecofeminist. I aspire to evoke radical imagination and celebrate womxn and nature through my art.
How do you practice self-care?I do meditation, breathwork, and yoga and go on hikes to connect with my body and environment. I take movement breaks in between my work hours. I pay attention to what my body and mind need and create space for rest.
How do mindfulness and awareness of self-love impact your life?
They had a profound impact on my life. I used to be so harsh on myself and had this perfectionist mindset that would hold me back from so much. Through mindfulness and awareness of self-love, I started having a more holistic perspective on life. Everything is connected, and self-love is the key to solid relationships with others and the environment. Life got so much easier when I started showing the compassion I needed to myself and reminding myself to stay in the present.
Do you mind sharing about your role as an Intersectional Ecofeminist? (Your experience, perspective, definition, or can be anything)
Eco-feminism acknowledges that the exploitation and domination of nature and women are interrelated and reinforce each other. And intersectionality refers to the understanding that different forms of oppression and privilege (such as those related to race, gender, class, sexuality, ability, and age) intersect and cannot be understood in isolation from one another. In the context of eco-feminism, this means recognizing the multiple and interconnected ways women and nature are marginalized and exploited.
As an intersectional ecofeminist, I seek to challenge and dismantle the systems of power that underpin both environmental destruction and the oppression of women and address the issues such as climate change and gender inequality in ways that prioritize the voices and experiences of women, particularly those who are most marginalized. I envision a world where we all live harmoniously, prioritizing sustainability, equity, and justice for all.Do you have any other advice for me and my readers?
I would recommend the books Intersectional Environmentalist by Leah Thomas, All We Can Save by Naomi Klein, and Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall Kimmerer. I would advise setting aside time for listening to your body and connecting. Find ways to reconnect with yourself, the people around you, and the environment.
Dr. Michelle Yan
Singapore
Please introduce yourself.
Hi, I am Dr. Michelle Yan, a practitioner of Classical Chinese Medicine. I use traditional healing modalities to bring physical comfort and spiritual grounding to those suffering from severe pain, deep anxiety, and serious illness.
How do you practice self-care?I sleep when I'm tired. I meditate daily. I take walks into the forest. I eat healthy foods and drink green smoothies. I take Chinese herbs and use gemstones to heal myself.
Could you please introduce us to the powerful impacts of mindful eating and a green smoothie?
Being grateful and mindful when we eat is a way to digest the food more consciously. I like to make my own green smoothies because I get to interact with choosing the vegetable and fruits that will go into my digestive system and nourish me.
Do you have any advice for my readers and me on maintaining and promoting health, wellness, and well-being?
Yes, having a calm and positive mindset is very important in maintaining good health. Stay happy and don't worry too much. Also be conscious about the quality of sound and the media/news that is going into our consciousness. Have an open and honest mind.
Jeremy mccaffrey
Portland, OR
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Hi, it's Jeremy!
How do you practice self-care?Self Care is a regulatory journey of self-cultivation, I recognize that there are energies that flow through me and my role is to regulate and cultivate those energies. which means to manage & enhance these energies. These energies that I speak of are the three treasures (from a taoist, internal alchemy perspective). The three treasures are qi (vital energy, generative force), ching (sexual, creative energy), and shen (spirit energy, soul essence). Therefore, self care is a process that seeks to cultivate these processes through the individual path and the paired path, also known as on my own and with others. This was my theory of self care, now i will provide details into my process.
I practice self care by cultivating rhythm in my days, an by recognizing the constant nature of change - how even my rhyhtm is always changing and vibrating at slightly different frequencies all of the time. Self care is a term that encompasses all of my behavior because everything that i do ought to be directed towards my vitality. Self care encompasses myself and my environment because i can not have one without the other and my environment will always influence my state of being. I practice self care with hot/cold therapy, mindful eating, exercise, qi gong, time in nature, journaling, singing, spending quality time with others, meditation, learning, being present, and more!
I would love to hear more about your healing, learning, and growing journey at the age of early 20s, if you do not mind sharing. This question sounds very heavy so please do not stress yourself out, just present whatever you are willing to and comfortable with.
I am an open book here, I was 17 when i was diagnosed with stage 2 hodgkins lymphoma, lymphatic cancer. I went through chemo & radiation and it truly changed my life. I am still processing this experience, I don't think I will ever stop - it was hard to accept, it was hard to epxerience, it is hard to not be afraid of it happening again.
As I was growing up, I had no real sense of rhythm or routine or regulation therefore I am 23 now and I am teaching myself how to take care of myself, how to regulate emotionally and physically, and how to interact with others in friendships & intimate relationships. I am growing, and I feel so much. I feel joy, excitement, fear, anxiety, shame, guilt, love, pain, etc. Though I believe that we truly free ourselves by feeling all that we feel. We live on this earth and we have an opportunity to experience, so we ought to experience all that we can feel.
This journey is one of constantly learning who I am whilst coping with the fact that I will never be the same, it is a paradox where we all hold the tension between the extremes.
Thank you for hosting various gatherings and creative events for us which means a lot and have such an incredible impact on the community. I am also curious about your thoughts regarding a sense of community. What does it mean to you and how does it impact your health, wellness, and well-being?
Community allows for the cultivation of meaning and purpose. Community is so so important. Community allows an indiviudal to find a niche, to curate a role, to connect with stability and social responsibility. The way that I connect with community is a major apsect of how I self regulate and how I nourish myself. Community enriches my health and wellbeing because a collective energy nourishes me and it supports my mental health through purpose and meaning.
Chelsie Falk
Portland, OR
Please introduce yourself.
I am Dr Chelsie Falk, associate professor of nutrition here at NUNM.
How do you practice self-care?
Self-care is a matter of slowing down, listening to my body and the environment, and taking the time to rest whenever needed. I routinely carve out time for naps, daydreaming, listening to records, and other "non-productive" activities daily. I am also a deeply creative person and recharge by engaging with a wide range of hobbies including drawing/painting/art, fiber work/knitting, mixed media work, gardening, and singing, to name a few. I also meditate 30-60 minutes most days. One of the fundamental ways I care do myself is remembering to play. This means having fun, moving around, laughing, and not trying to accomplish anything other than finding joy. I do this most often in the time I spend with my kids and friends.
Hippocrates stated, "Let food be thy medicine". In your perspective, how does nutrition impact our general health, wellness, and well-being?
Nutrition is fundamental to our health. More importantly, in my opinion, our relationship with our food and awareness of how this is connected to the intersection of food, the environment, the community, social/cultural identity, and the systemic structures we are navigating is more important than the simple breakdown of nutrients or the designation of a healthy or unhealthy food or diet. We are connected to everything... always... and food is one entry point to explore these connections.
Do you mind defining the term 'organic whole food' and its benefits?
"Organic" farming is defined and regulated under the guidelines set by the USDA. The benefits on a per produce or individual level are debated but I find it important to go upstream and consider the environmental, chemical, social, agricultural and systemic impacts of organic verses conventional farming practices. I think there is benefit in farming and creating a food system that is more aligned with the health of people and the planet.
How should we understand and apply the concept of mindful eating on a daily basis?
There is no singular approach for mindfulness. Cultivating mindfulness in one's life is a very individualized process that would include eating but which also must include all other facets of their lived experience. In my opinion mindfulness is a way of being and is not separate from human experience. It may start as a practice, a reminder to remember each moment but ultimately I would hope mindfulness becomes all encompassing.
Do you have any advice for me and my readers?
Don't take advice from me or other people whenever possible! Find stillness and silence and listen to your own guidance. Embrace exactly the person you are and remember you are already incredible and having an impact on everyone and everything around you.
miquella young
Portland, OR
Please introduce yourself.
Hi there! I’m Miquella (Mi-kell-uh). I’m a hip-hop teacher, a mama to 2-year-old Lucy, and a future practitioner of Naturopathic and Chinese Medicine.
How do you practice self-care?
In lots of ways! The first and most important is building my relationship with myself, so I know what I need and how to ask for it. Some things that help me to fill up my proverbial cup are meditating daily, taking deep breaths, getting acupuncture, taking care of health issues as they arise, going to counseling on a weekly basis, spending time with family, with friends, and with just myself.
Could you please share some fundamental knowledge about Qigong and movement in general?
In its most basic translations, qi means energy and gong means movement. Making qigong a practice of moving energy. Of course there is a lot more depth to these Chinese terms, each character is rich with layers of symbolism.
The character for Qi is a picture of Rice, which represents a staple food and key building block of living organisms. Qi comes in many forms, it's not only in the food we eat, but the air we breathe, and it constantly flows through our body in pathways called meridians.
I like to describe qigong as a moving meditation, because to truly practice it, you need to be fully present: matching breath with movement, keeping awareness open, and reorienting yourself when thoughts or distractions seep in. As in sitting meditation, alignment/posture is a key principle.
There are many lineages of qigong, all of which vary slightly in the region in Asia they're from, the movement styles, and forms that are passed down. The lineage I have been taught at NUNM is from the Jinjingong Lineage, which focuses on stretching the tendons. I am in no way a master of qigong, even though I teach it; those who carry a lineage are carefully chosen.
Typically, a whole form of qigong is taught, which is a series of 3 or more movements, each of which are repeated a number of times. There are typically opening and closing sequences.
How can Qigong help you?
When you do qigong, the life energy (qi) starts to circulate in places where it hasn't before. The microcosmic orbit (as practiced in the breath work up and down the spine earlier in this session) begins to open up and qi is allowed to flow easily. Then the organ systems are freed and the periphery also opens up. Ultimately, this means that you can access your own resources and distribute them as needed.
For those with illness, there is medical qigong. Disease/illness is understood as blockage of qi flow and qigong naturally opens and moves qi. It's typically a set of prescribed movements done with the patient of given to them to perform regularly at home, if its likely that they will be compliant. Qigong is a gentle form of movement that, from a physical standpoint, can be used to promote balance, strengthen joints and muscles, stretch and strengthen tendons.
Do you have any advice for my readers and me?
Self-care can feel like just another thing you need to do, or it can feel like a way to justify sitting on the couch watching netflix all day. I'm not saying watching netflix all day isn't self care sometimes, but I often find there's something deeper going on if all I want to do is check out of the real world and check into a virtual one. Self-care isn't always easy because it can mean kicking up old dust and dirt you've left up touched for years. Self-care is building a robust support system, it's having the courage to look at your flaws and your strengths, it's addressing your childhood trauma and knowing you're not alone. My engaging in self-care, you are valuing your own self-growth and development as well as everyone else's; because a healthy human is able to show up first for themselves and also overflow love onto everyone else.
Lindsay Marshall
Portland, OR
Please introduce yourself.
Hi, I'm Lindsay. I work in public service as an educator at the college/university level and in local government and live with my family in the lovely Pacific Northwest.
How do you practice self-care?
It depends - I don't have something "regular" that I do right now, like I have had during other times in my life. For me, it is less about the exact type of self-care practice, but rather more about learning to recognize when I need to practice self-care and then doing it. Additionally, learning to push past the "idea" of the amount of effort it will take (ex: Driving an hour to meet a friend for lunch - getting out the door can be super hard, but I know that I will return felling "filled up").
How do you maintain the balance between your professional and personal life?
The line between them have definitely become more blurred since COVID and I see this as both a positive and a negative. I have the ability to work remotely, so therefore I have much more flexibility than I did pre-COVID and more than those who cannot work remotely. I can work from home if there is sickness in my family, or have home repairs scheduled, or need to go to an appointment and make up the hours later in the evening. I think that the understanding that people have lives outside of work has, in many ways, helped humanize each other. That said, because I can work anytime/anywhere on a laptop or phone, it can be really hard to "unplug" and not work just because I can. This takes awareness can be hard to set those boundaries.
Do you believe that parenting styles and skills have an impact on children's health, wellness, and well-being?
Absolutely, 100% without question. Research shows that children's environment and their relationships with caregiving adults significantly impact health, wellness, and well-being on multiple levels. Children are "sponges" and absorb so much, both socially and physiologically in their brain development. So everything from types of discipline, to parental modeling of behavior, to food choices impact children. As a parent, there is so much information now and it can sometimes be difficult to navigate. That said, we generally all doing our best to parent as well as we can!
Is there any difference in your self-care practices before and after becoming a parent?
It looks different than it has in other times of my life. It is more about boundaries these days, as working and having small children can take over the time you used to have for practicing self-care. Carving out time for yourself and re-prioritizing are important. For example, I can relax and read a magazine for pleasure for 20 minutes, or I can spend those 20 minutes doing the dishes. It isn't always choosing to read that is self-care, but rather practicing how to recognize and reprioritize - realizing that daily tasks will always be there and recognizing when you need those 20 minutes of reading to recenter yourself.
How do you define 'holistic self-care', 'health, 'wellness' and 'wellbeing' via Medical Anthropology lens?
Through a medical anthropology lens (and this is just my thoughts, not those of the field):
Holistic self-care - Considering all parts of a person and their life experience, then being aware and attentive to various needs.
Health - Technically defined by the WHO as mental, emotional, social, and physical well-being, not simply being without illness or disease.
Wellness - Perhaps more of an idea or journey towards health, more lifestyle and choices
Well-being - All of the above and perhaps considered moment to moment, including reflecting back and looking forward.
All of these are rooted in personal, social, and cultural information and nuance. What any of these ideas mean and how they function will vary from person-person and culture-culture. They can also be very different when looking individually and from a larger group level.
In your opinion, what factors can impact the decision and motivation to practice self-care on a daily basis?
Just how the day went in general. Some days are easier for self-care than others (ex: I could read before bed, or I could just go to bed early because I'm tired). Some days self-care looks differently than other days (ex: I thought I'd do "xyz" today, but I actually ended up doing "abc" and it was just as good for my soul). Once things get built into your daily routine, things are easier. And building that capacity for recognizing what you need and listening to it - that is really the biggest piece, I think (that and not feeling guilty for what you/didn't do regarding self-care).
Do you have any advice for me and my readers?
Be kind to yourself. Be realistic with yourself and others. We're all doing the best we can.
Jess waldschmidt
Portland, OR
Please introduce yourself.
Hi there, my name is Jess Waldschmidt and I use she/her pronouns. I'm currently employed as a market research manager for Oregon State University where I provide fact-based insights to inform decision-making on new distance education opportunities. I live in Oregon with my husband T.J. and my dog Rosa, and enjoy spending my free time recreating outdoors, engaging in my hobbies, and taking naps. I consider myself a creative generalist and lifelong learner and have experience working in financial services, human resources, program management, and marketing. I earned my bachelor's degree in graphic communications from the University of Northern Iowa and was born and raised in southeastern Iowa.
How do you practice self-care?
Practicing self-care for me is simply listening to my body. I used to skip breakfast or lunch and then wonder why I felt terrible after I hadn't eaten all day. Or, I'd wonder why I felt so exhausted all week even though I barely drank any water or got little to no exercise. Every day I like to set an intention to respond to my body in a healthy way when it needs something. This isn't always easy for me, and I use other self-care strategies like journaling and meditation to help set these intentions and build self-compassion. I struggle with daily practices like this but remind myself not to focus on when I don't succeed, but on when I do. I also like to take my dog for long hikes early on the weekends before anyone else is out to fully immerse myself in nature. And, I try to see my friends regularly and share a meal together. Recently I started setting aside time for what I call "me" dates. The idea is to literally take myself out on a date, so I might try a new restaurant or spend the afternoon painting or watching documentaries.
Working for a profession that requires a lot of creativity, how could you maintain a mind with an abundance of creativity; moreover, where did you find your inspiration for both of your personal lifestyle and professional life?
I learned how to maintain a healthy work-life balance after experiencing what is called burnout in my late twenties. I had a job that I enjoyed but was extremely demanding, and I didn't set proper boundaries and overworked myself. My experience made me realize the importance of taking care of yourself and how your well-being affects your work. Recognizing that I am my biggest asset helps me maintain my ability to be creative. This means I set priorities, I plan how I want to spend my time and keep track of what I accomplish. I make time for self-care like eating proper meals and taking walks. I engage in learning new skills and discussing complex topics with others. The way I show up in both my personal and professional life is important to me, so I don't see these as separate domains but rather embrace them as parts of a whole. This holistic perspective is what helps me maintain my creativity.
What do you do to promote self-development?
I love education and have worked at a college or university for the last 13 years in an effort to promote self-development broadly. My current role involves researching people who want to attend college and advocating for their needs so Oregon State University can create the right education programs. I believe education is transformative and foundational to self-development, so I enjoy sharing learning opportunities with others and supporting them in setting and achieving goals. I also like to share my own accomplishments, and I love talking about new things I've learned with others.
As a marketing professional, do you mind sharing how to effectively apply self-promotion and enhance self-confidence?
There are several traditional marketing strategies that you can use to effectively self-promote and also gain more confidence. The first step is to establish your personal brand. Branding is something we're all familiar with; for example, most of us know what the company Disney does. Everything Disney produces can usually be identified as a Disney product even if it's not labeled, right? That is branding. Now, personal branding takes this concept and applies it to a person or identity. Have you ever heard of Oprah? What about LeBron James? There are many ways to create your personal brand, and I would suggest searching for some basic branding templates or online courses on the topic to get started. The next step is to establish or refine your digital presence. This requires you to be intentional about how you are portrayed online. This includes your social media profiles, blogs, websites, digital portfolios, and so on. Your digital presence should exude your personal brand, convey your strengths, and articulate what you can offer. Use this as a foundation to build your reputation, and you will enhance your self-confidence.
jay cohen
Portland, OR
Please introduce yourself.
My name is Jay Cohen. I’m a 64 year old male, happily married with two teenage children and a Saint Bernard living in Portland, Oregon.
How do you practice self-care?
My best self-care practice is maintaining a life balance. I make sure to play as hard as I work. My work is a combination of graphic design/online publishing and growing gourmet mushrooms and my play is snowboarding, paddleboarding, backpacking, hiking, and coaching. Obviously this is all tried to nutrition.
Based on your coaching experience, do you mind sharing with us how to motivate people to achieve their goals?
I get asked this question a lot and I always give the same answer: “I try to make someone feel pretty”. I try to recognize their best asset and compliment them on it as soon as I can, and then I follow up with what they need to work on to reach their goals. Example: “Dude, you are so fast and run so hard…once you get your throws down, you are going to be an awesome player!”
What inspired you to start growing a mushroom business? What are some benefits which we can gain from edible mushrooms?
I always loved eating mushrooms and then I started foraging and fell down the mushroom rabbit hole. As far as the benefits of eating mushrooms, I make this clear: I went to art school. I’m not a doctor. These days it’s hard to avoid reading about mushrooms in your news feed every week. If you want to learn about the benefits you should GTS (Google that s…). High in fiber and protein, low in fat and calories. That should be enough to know, but focus on the antioxidants, beta glucans, and disease fighting properties. Research, research, research.
Do you have any advice for me and my readers?
Since most of your audience is most likely much younger than me, my advice would be to find a career where you’re not sitting on your ass all day.