Everything Happened for A Reason

What if I still stayed in the old place, would it be better? How about keeping in touch with that person? Why did I decide to leave this person or that place? Many questions intrigued me. Finally, I have some free time to sit down, breathe, and reflect on my own experiences. Time is a powerful tool which can either heal your scar, erase your past, develop or destroy things. It flies by rapidly that makes me overwhelmed to catch up with my timeline experience. Reminiscence became more blurry and vague which caused some self-doubts. I was uncertain if I had made a right decision or not; moreover, I forgot the initial reasons why I wanted to move out of that situation so badly.

At the moment, I am in a new and more advanced level compared to the past version which means I had to say 'goodbye' towards many old and inappropriate relationships. Yesterday, I unexpectedly reconnected with my old friend who I met twice in the last five years. To be fair, we shared some common spiritual practices, and interests. On the other hand, our belief systems and a big age gap separated prevented us from growing a much more deeper resonance. It was lovely catching up with her. We kept each other updated about current status. During our conversation, I accidentally brought up a controversial topic. I swore that I totally forgot her worldview which made me so regretful about mentioning it. Meanwhile, a feeling of relief sparkled in my heart. It ensured that I have made the right move. I left that place and avoided those contacts for a reason. Our values, beliefs, life orientation, etc. are not aligned with each other anymore. We met at a certain time in life, created beautiful memories together, and saved them in a precious corner of memory treasure. Nothing is everlasting. Therefore, we should respect and appreciate what we are experiencing and having at the moment. If it's time to see them off, let them go in peace.