True Love

I used to question myself : "How do I know if he would be the one?". I asked family members, friends, as well as looked it up on Google, but everything was still vague . Until one day, it all made senses.

We met naturally and unexpectedly in the third country (not our birth countries). Neither of us anticipated a serious relationship due to doubts and overthinking at that time. However, things worked out magically and beautifully.

Sometimes, I sit down and reflect on my own experience with love and romantic relationship. I have to admit that my 'sixth sense' or intuition is very sharp which saves me from troubles and regretful decisions. When I chased after the person who matched my 'ideal list', ultimately, it turned out to be a villain. All I received was a broken heart and disappointment. Speaking from my personal experience, I advise you to not chase after anyone, let it happen organically. The only thing we need to do is setting a positive and appropriate intention. The most crucial assignment for all of us is focusing on improving ourselves. Once you enhance your own frequency, it will signal and attract similar or higher frequency that aligns with yours.

Things happened smoothly and naturally, no dramas, or toxicity. He is the only one who brings peace, safe feelings, and a sense of home into my life. We are supplements for each other. I could see the fulfilment in not only my eyes but also his as well. We feel comfortable and safe to be our authentic selves while being with each other. This is the most meaning and wonderful thing that I have observed. One time, I saw him look at the mirror and express his positivity and confidence. It lit his eyes and spirit up. How incredible it is! On my side, my mind and my heart were full of joy and love. This relationship has taught me to be more mature, how to offer and receive, how to be treated kindly and gently, how to believe in myself, and the art of respect, gratitude, empathy and communication.

Every one deserves a healthy and beautiful love story. Let me tell you, nothing occurs without a challenge. Things will be up and down like a roller coaster, as long as you are determined to commit and protect this relationship, it will last forever. Never lower your standard, because we all deserve the best. It is necessary to learn how to adapt and modify. Last but not least, be generous to forgive for each other mistakes. Finally, never forget to take care of yourself. Self-love is an indicator of unconditional love and healthy relationship with yourself, your significant one and others as well.